Indeed FC, we are all products of our own experiences and that's what makes all these different views fascinating (if less than totally helpful to Wallypott!)French Cricket wrote:Mols, I would say that I have learned through my extremely long and varied career that when something is offered to you on a plate ... never ever grab it! Stop, think, and breathe before you do anything! So yes, I'm definitely not a dealer. Actually, I've never once offered a discount in over 25 years. And no regrets ... But hey, we're all different!
When it was necessary to fill a gap at the right time, I could always conjure up a small sweetener (never more than a couple of hundred quid) to clinch the deal.
But I would argue that sometimes, when the opportunity offers, you just have to hold your nose and jump; I remember 35 years ago when I had the chance to buy a beach-side house in Le Lavandou, Provence, for £18,000 and I didn't quite have the nerve. If I had dredged up a bit more courage then, I would have been laughing now. Tant pis
Mols